Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Friday, July 13, 2012

One Hundred Years of Solitude


Some sad news was reported this week, Gabriel Garcia Marquez is no longer writing due to dementia. I read One Hundred Years of Solitude during my Peace Corps service and I feel in love with Garcia Marquez and magical realism.

Magical realism blends magical elements with the real world. The story explains these magical elements as real occurrences, presented in a straightforward manner that places the "real" and the "fantastic" in the same stream of thought. What I love about this type of writing is that it makes me feel like a little kid again. I get to imagine these magical things in the context of real life. I love that every person I talk to about the book has a different vision of how all of these things happen and how they look.

One Hundred Years of Solitude follows several generations of the Buendías family, founders of the fictional Latin America town of Macondo. The book follows the family as the town changes and grows. For years, the town was isolated from outsiders, except for gypsies who peddle “technologies” such as ice and telescopes. It then gains fame as the birthplace of the rebel leader during a civil war. The next generation faces the invasion of American banana plantation owners. And the final generation, because of the exposure to the outside world, eventually finds themselves alienated and doomed to a solitary ending.



García Márquez covers almost a century in the book. He describes are the major turning points in the lives of the Buendías: births, deaths, marriages, love affairs. Some of the Buendía men are wild and sexually rapacious, frequenting brothels and taking lovers. Others are quiet and solitary, preferring to shut themselves up in their rooms. The women, too, range from the outrageously outgoing, like Meme, to the prim and proper Fernanda del Carpio.
A sense of the family’s destiny for greatness remains alive in its tenacious matriarch, Ursula Iguarán, and she works to keep the family together despite its differences. But for the Buendía family, as for the entire village of Macondo, the forces of modernity are devastating.

Although I loved this book, I know plenty of people who hated this book. It is definitely a style of writing that you either love or hate. I fell in love with magical realism right away but for others it is an acquired taste. If you don’t like this book, don’t give up, try a book by Isabella Allende before you really decide if you love it or hate it.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Baseball, Scrabble, Wedding


My little brother is getting married next year. I absolutely love his fiancé, but I feel a bit sorry for her. One, she is going to be stuck with my brother for the rest of her life and trust me I have been stuck with him for 25 years, it is tough. Two, I am a fairly nosy and pushy person so I have been bombarding her with emails containing bridesmaids dresses, engagement photos, and ideas for their outdoor reception.

As I have said before I allowed myself to join Pinterest this summer. I am beyond obsessed and unfortunately for Taylor, I bombard her inbox with more emails than is probably appropriate. Here are some of my favorites…

Brandon loves baseball, especially the Cincinnati Reds. We grew up going to games, watching Neon Deon, Barry Larkin and Chris Sabo. I saw these engagement photos and I thought they would be perfect for them.


Every time I go home I end up spending one evening playing Scrabble with my brother, Taylor and my Mom. We are not a competitive family, ok that's a lie, we are a highly competitive family so these Scrabble games are intense. I also thought this was a super cute idea for the Scrabble lovers.



Although I may be nosy and pushy I am most of all excited and happy for my little brother and Taylor.

Can’t wait to celebrate 08.31.13!

Friday, June 22, 2012

Why Women Still Can't Have It All

The Atlantic Magazine published an interesting article in its July/August issue by former Director of Policy Planning at the State Department, Anne-Marie Slaughter, about women's work-life balance.

This article has created quite a stir on the inter webs. Ms. Slaughter's thesis is that there are two kinds of thought when it comes to women and work-life balance, hers and those of Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg. Ms. Sandberg is of the "higher-harder-faster" school while Ms. Slaughter argues women should not have to apologize for giving up powerful jobs to spend more time with their family.

I have to admit as a woman with ambitious professional goals, I have always wondered where a family would fit into those goals. Even if a bit scary, it is refreshing to hear a woman speak candidly about "why women still can't have it all"even if I still want to believe the mantra "we can have it all."

Is Ms. Slaughter right, should the workplace adapt to the changing roles of men and women, or should women continue to apologize for leaving jobs and careers to spend time with their families?